Music Enhances Social Skills

Music is a universal language no matter where you are from, where you reside, who you know or do not know, music can promote a common bond among people. Learning to play an instrument can assist shy or introverted individuals connect with others via the mutual interest and love of music. Lifelong friendships are made through music lessons, band classes, and orchestra participation. Becoming involved in a music group teaches several life skills, such as empathy and how to relate to others; the benefits of teamwork; dedication and determination for achieving a goal; and the development of discipline and leadership abilities. Mastering a new piece of music can bring the individual a sense of accomplishment while developing self-confidence and self-esteem because when he or she studies music, he or she notices skills improving through his or her own efforts which also helps to develop a positive self-image. As musicians discover consciously or subconsciously that they can master a skill and conquer different challenges, they can transfer this realization to other types of challenges that they encounter across the lifespan. Access to modern technology has resulted in the expectation of instant gratification particularly for younger generations which can result in frustration when they don’t immediately get what they want. However, real life as well as playing a musical instrument demands patience, discipline and accountability. Patience develops as a student becomes aware of the learning process and time commitment required in mastering an instrument while discipline develops from consisted daily practice. Accountability arises from the realization that only he or she can make himself or herself a better musician, so that the responsibility of making progress or not making progress falls squarely in the lap of the musician and no one else.